I found this blog post by our pastor, Randy Huddleston, to be very helpful. Hope it will be a blessing and help to you also.
GETTING PAST THE “ME THING”
A huge obstacle on my way to the relationship with God He has prepared for me is “me.” Have you noticed that?
God wants to reveal more, but I am busy with me. God wants to show me His love, but I am filling my heart my way. Look at this in Galatians 5 for a tool to test when too much of “me” is running things. Ready? Check off any which show up in your life.
More available at…
http://gbc-pryor.blogspot.com/2013/11/getting-past-me-thing.html
Randy Huddleston, Pastor, Grace Bible Church Pryor, Oklahoma